Originally Posted by Needabreak

I just read back on a few of your posts, and you seem to ask these types of questions a lot. Do you still need validation that your husband is an addict? Well, yes he is. The question has been answered. As far as whether he's hiding things, well, people in the depths of addiction do that. And they lie. Consistently. As in whenever their lips are moving.

Instead of focusing on his actions, your time would be better spent focusing on yourself, and what you can do to get out of this hole that you have allowed yourself to be dragged into. He may or may not choose recovery. But whatever he does, you don't have to get dragged down with him. You do have the option of letting go. And if you choose stay with him in his active addiction, well then the misery you bring to yourself is kind of a consequence of your decision to stay.