yes, I went 2 weeks ago to the first meeting. Last week my dad went in the hospital and when he had gotten out he has asked us to go out to dinner with him and it was the night of alalnon. I plan on going this week.
When you say "detach" what do you mean? I have been trying.
Last night it was horrible here with a snow storm and wind blowing horrible with white out conditions. I had heard them and she kept saying no and soon he was out with his hat and shoes on. I told him he better not be planning on going anywhere because it ws so dangerous outside. Then shortly she came out pissed off and walked out. He was ready to follow and I said to him "Really? You are making her get you booze? It is dangerous outside" He replied "Oh yes, you will assume." Then he shakes his head and slams the door. Husband was sitting on his recliner of course and never said one word! After my son left I told him "AGAIN! I am the only one that speaks up and gets no where!"