Step 5 set me free dude. I was so afraid I was going to be judged on some of the things I had done. I had told my sponsor many times as I was doing my 4th how terrified I was to let anyone else know my dark secrets. Once I got done with my 4th step convo with my sponsor he said. "OK, now tell me the deepest darkest thing you have on your list.....
He had done the EXACT same thing.
Liberating to say the least, made the rest of the stuff on my 5th simple. Was able to finaly start to grow as a man once that step was completed.
Be THOROUGH!