Ohhhh those conversations with your A where they argue that they don't have a problem.
I remember the moment it came to me how insane I was to have the same conversation with him over and over and over. I don't ever want to forget that. Up until till that time I didn't know I had a choice. I finally decided. I had no idea what the next step was. I just knew in that moment that the merry go round would go around for a long time and I didn't have to ride it any longer.
I did what was best for me and told him to do the same.
It was an empowering moment that didn't happen overnight. Thanks to Al Anon and SR I grew one step at a time. I'm so grateful for a HP that shows us the way.
Katchie, I am so sorry you are hurting. Sending you strength and courage. Please remember that God has greater things planned than you can even imagine.