Originally Posted by
Katchie 
I'm very thankful tonight is my CR group. My lungs feel full of bleach fumes from scrubbing and crying at the house all day. I just want it to all go away. I hate hope that's dashed as soon as I allow myself to feel it.
Hugs Katchie.
Hope can be a tricky thing, especially when dealing with an alcoholic. I did not reply to your thread about hope the other day because I did not want to be your Debbie Downer. With my knowledge of A's, I would not believe/trust/hope that he gets better right now. I would not take him at face value until he has substantial (over 6 months, but ideally over a year) sober AND recovery time. Until then, he has the mind of an A.
The more you engage him, the more confused you can become.
XOXO