I thought I was here "because of" my AH. Then I wondered at how much more my life with an AF played into it.
But I stayed for
Me. I realized very quickly that what I was reading wasn't a bunch of negative "You can't change him" talk, but affirmation that I have 100% control over myself & how I move forward in life & I could start making those changes
right now.
This second.
I stay because I'm not done learning. And if I things that I share help others in any way, that's a bonus. I also have a tremendous amount of respect for a lot of the long-time posters here & in a way this has come to be a sort of extended cyber-family that never fails to rally around me in my lowest moments.
