That's weird because this is just what I needed to hear today.
I wonder sometimes why I come here. Sometimes I wonder if it wouldn't be better not to hear the sadness, the frustration and the desperation that is expressed here. Like it is bringing me down. I was asking myself shouldn't I do other things (which I do also) to keep my mind OFF of this? My husband doesn't do any kind of support group/forum. He said he just handles things differently (probably why he has high blood pressure, really). I think he holds things in. But then he also grew up with an alcoholic mom and a drug addict brother so who knows?
Anyway, it was on my mind lately so your post was timely for me.
Thanks, Kari