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Old 01-31-2015, 08:09 PM
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glitterdeva
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Originally Posted by Twofish View Post
Dear Glitter,
You sound so much better! You made me chuckle when you
spoke about the math thing...
I'm so glad that you are keeping the line of communication
open with the therapists at the rehab. This will come in handy
when and if you get some questionable/crazy phone calls from
your AH.
As far as that debit card/Walmart questions you had yesterday,
you got wonderful advice from SR and the explanation from the
rehab center. Did you notice how our minds get paranoid and go
half crazy when we start to second guess everything? This alone
drove me half crazy.
You have started, which is hard to do, to have a "plan"!! I wish I would
of done that sooner!
I hope you have a peaceful, under control, Friday, dear
Glitter!!! You are so worth it!! And we all care about
you!!! Someone mentioned the book "Codependent no more"
might be a good read?? "Addiction HATES it when we educate ourselves
about the disease. Maybe use knowledge as a strong tool, it did help me
to understand what was making me feel so sad and upset!!
Have a nice day and if you want, we have an online support
meeting tonight in the chat room, at 8pm CDT.
Anyway, keep up the hard work yet be kind and easy on yourself!!!
TF
I got "Codependent no more" and I am really enjoying it now. Just taking it one day at the time. My sister had a baby several days ago and I am just over the moon, her son is so precious. Life is beautiful regardless of this huge rock I am carrying. Someone from my past wrote a text message to see how I was doing (this woman I used to be friends long time ago). She indicated that we should all get together for dinner as long as AH was not there. I lost a group of friends when I married AH, this woman along with two others. I didn't respond. I think its not right, if you love someone and you are friends would you drop them from your life if their husband was using drugs? Anyway, just another day
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