Originally Posted by
maia1234 
HS- You have to remember that the way he is addicted to to his alcohol, we become addicted to the addict. So if you think about it and you want him to be strong and not party. You need to be strong and not go after your addiction which is him.
Your urges are the same as his. You need to be strong and do what is best for you. Addictions are not healthy for any of us. Stay busy and anything else you can do not to cave in and regret something you might do. The bottom line, it will not help him at all by you enabling him. So work your program and this to shall pass!!!
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Oh no no, I'm not worried about caving. I know that's a dead end street. I just don't like the panic and the thought flood of "wow everybody does this. Is it really me? Am I really just a stick in the mud like he says?"
Just the self doubt.