Zoso- No regrets about leaving and thankful to not have to deal with the fallout happening now. But still smarting from this sting....
Well, there's nothing really wrong with that. Feeling the sting is OK. What you did, and what you're continuing to do, takes a lot of courage. You made a decision the status quo was untenable, you acted with authority by leaving, and now you're riding out the storm.
As far as his family goes, it needs to be said that addiction touches every family differently, and there is reason to suspect they aren't handling this well. The good news is that's not your problem, unless you choose to make it your problem.
Hold him close to your heart. Pray for him. But keep on keeping on, without him.