Good Morning JB,
Oh well, what this further taught me is that I really do not have any control over his drinking. In a controlled environment such as dinner and movies, I can limit him to two, but eventually we do something in which I don't have that control.
I had to cut and paste this little part because as I read it I was thinking mad scientist and lab rat!
Let him do what he is going to do, I promise you will go insane. I never went to the extremes you are and I went bat **** crazy. I can only imagine how you feel