Originally Posted by
mfanch 
Yeah, the parent-child set up doesn't last long and only added to resentments for DH and me.
I wasn't going to change until *I* was ready. My DH "controlling" (lol) my drink was a joke.
Totally agree 5 million percent. For my part this parent-child relationship that formed was VERY destructive. I haven't consumed alcohol in nearly a year but recovering from the destructive dynamics that ensued are going to take a LONG time to recover from.
That said JustBreathe. I was curious about when you posted. How can other respondents help you most right now with our responses?