Originally Posted by
Florence 
It just always feels like fake humility talk, fishing for compliments, testing me, even. In my dating history, someone who said this might mean I was getting into a relationship with somebody who was really insecure, or it might mean I was getting into it with someone who would see if I would take some digs.
Right off the bat? Date one? Calling women b------ and saying they only date jerks? He's got some stuff to deal with, IMO.
Just be smart! Date one doesn't mean you have to explain everything about your life to him. Maybe you're not ready yet. Maybe he isn't either.
I think it's important to clarify. He didn't call me a b----. He said that if I wanted to do the dishes, he wouldn't b---- [about it]. All my brain heard was the last word, though, and I immediately flashed back to my ex's last text to me (calling me a stupid b----).