Wow you've really done so well, I can see the effort you make. I know what you mean about the the "swearing meetings" and not wanting what some have. That's okay. I looked and went untill I found a meeting that was more in tune with my needs. As for the in your face type of lady, wouldn't work for me, though sometimes that's the type we exactly need. Go with your instinct. Be honest, just say, thanks, was she suggesting she sponsor you? Those are the type I tend to avoid myself, but I have a great sponsor, I knew she was the one when I saw her. Keep up the good work.