OK, this isn't working.
I had in mind a man to ask to sponsor me. We already talk all the time, and I really like his program. He calls me on my ****, and doesn't let me get complacent. However, I just found out that he recently asked my husband to sponsor HIM. If he were to sponsor me, then my husband would be my grand-sponsor and that is just a little TOO incestual for me.
What to do, what to f*****g do!