Originally Posted by
maia1234 
But the A reached out to the forum and confessed what he did. So he really is trying to be honest with what he did.
One more thought for you maia - I may not get the same honesty from RAH that he is willing to give to other A's in his program, especially in early recovery. I think he's gotten better about this over time but I'll guarantee he still shares more with his sponsor about his struggles with addiction than he does with me.
I also agree with Dandylion that as family we're on the frontlines of dealing with the consequences sometimes, no matter how detached we are. *I* have to live with the reality of the financial impact of RAH's DUI last year, no one else does.