Godismyrock....I have done all types of reactions.
I would say to you...the first task is detach. Worry about the "love" part, later.
Detach enough to protect yourself from the soul crushing disappointment.
I think that detachment with love is a really advanced concept.
You probably, are not at that place, yet.
You have to figure a way to deal with your anger and pain. It is not good to just stuff your own emotions. You don't have to go all "meltdown" on him, though.
I think you also have to know where you are with the relationship, also.
dandylion