Butterfly, I can hear you. I can feel what you feel. My ex filed against me. I never wanted that divorce. What got me going was what he was willing to give to me. It was nothing. Hate to say this, but I just got a computer, didn't have one before, and I started researching what I was entitled to. Was going to go without a lawyer, but hey, I found out he was trying to screw me, so got one of those also. I think this is when I was able to detach. Just really seeing all of this in black and white.
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