Met mine in a bar
He kept circling me for years. I'm not kidding you, he actually did. Everytime me and my friends entered a bar he joined our party. When I finally gave in and started dating him the routine changed and he couldn't pay me less attention if he tried while we were at a bar and instead hanged with his drinking buddies and I of course thought that I was not attractive enough
Stayed around for 2 years.
And then saw him again 5 years later and of course believed him when he said that he had been sober for over a year. If I only had known about this site then then I could have safed myself the grief of this second encounter. This time it only took me a few months to wise up. The month he stayed partying with his drinking buddies did not wash well with me