Do all A's abuse?
Question on abuse. Do all A's abuse? I was in a horrific relationship with an A for 5 years and the things he said were down right shocking:
"You're just another mouth to feed"
"You're a dirtball"
"You're the most boring person I've ever dated"
"My dad makes more money than both of your parents combined"
"My kids never loved you"
"I hope the next guy you date likes spray tan and cellulite"
"I hope your plane crashes"
"You're a f$&*# hillbilly"
"You're just an actress" (when I would cry)
"Don't let it ruin your day" (after he'd same mean things)
It's not my fault you don't have kids; I have 3 beautiful children. Have fun with your dog today."
And there's so much more....
He even started blackmailing me towards the end.
Is this a result of alcohol and cocaine use or is he just an evil, abusive pig without drugs? He was sooooo wonderful when we fist started dating--compassionate, generous, selfless, accommodating, etc. Then he began breaking up with me every few months then begging for me back with flowers, promises, etc. He always blamed it in on drug use (the abuse). It was a never ending cycle until he dumped me off the crazy train again.
And so here I am...picking up the pieces again.