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Old 01-19-2015, 02:42 PM
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Jsbodhi
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Originally Posted by gleefan View Post
Welcome jsbodhi and Della! It's nice to have you join our conversation. How long have you been sober? What's working for you?

I wish my kitchen was big enough for a couch, it that I had an open concept floor plan. I have to settle for a pass through in the wall between the kitchen and dining room. It does the trick! Today on my day off from work I make a few meals for the week - taco filling for the kids, meatballs and sauce, and a crockpot pork ragu. I also made a healthified version of a peanut butter chocolate chip cake.

It's nice to get back to cooking and cleaning again. I'm not much of a clean freak, but I do like to cook. For a while though I was hurting pretty badly, and couldn't motivate myself to do much beyond the bare minimum. Some people become sober and hit the ground running, others don't. I didn't. But I kept at yet, and slowly my body and my emotions caught up. If you're struggling today, I urge you to keep moving forward. Life will improve if you're sober. If you're drinking or stuck in addiction, it doesn't stand a chance. We're all here to lend an ear and a soft place for each other to land while we work through the issues surrounding our recovery from addiction and celebrate each other's victories.

Have a nice day Undies!
Hi! Thanks for the welcome!

I'm newly sober, started at the end of Nov, had a couple relapses in dec ( so I'm a member of nov and dec class....) but have been doing really well since, I am enjoying being sober a lot.
What works is when I acknowledge how much I wasting my life.
I'm a person that loves people and hobbies, like painting, cooking, hiking, travel, writing etc. I'm in school and have a little business that pays my tuition.
But the last few months all I do is drink, no more hobbies, grades slipping, business slipping because of my weekly wine binges. Started blacking out too and acting like a creature from the undead.... That was awesome for everyone else I'm sure.... luckily I don't remember a thing!!!! Just kidding, bad joke
I love life, but I wasn't anymore, I want to be me again.

What also works is AA, I'm not religious, so I struggle with that part a bit, but I'm making it work
I do yoga, and am back at my hobbies. Each sober day is like a relief.

I'm glad to hear you're getting back in the swing of things! You're food sounds so fantastic!!
Xoxo
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