I know thankyou! I just hate my daughter being upset when she's there. (He's never physical but heard him shouting at her earlier and saying stuff while on phone to me for something that wasn't needed.)....she phoned me back later and seems fine. It's me that's upset, she's home tomorrow too so can't wait to give her a big cwtch.
If he pulls anything will just have to deal with it when it comes! Hopefully he will realise I won't take his **** anymore. Although upset it kinda feels good to have eventually stood up to him!! X