JadedGirl this past week you have proven to yourself how strong and resilient you are. Don't let some insecure jerk's crap get to you. And more importantly, don't let the voice of alcohol convince you that you need it to deal with this. You've overcome so much. This is nothing. This guy is just a pesky mosquito that you can swat away. Let him cry himself to sleep.
And if you feel you or your daughter are in any way threatened by him, take legal action.
Stand tall and stand firm JadedGirl!