maybe a dumb question
If alcoholics see there actions resulting from drinking hurt the ones they love so much why don't they get help? I know addictions are tough but I think if I had one that was allowing me to hurt others I do everything in my power to stop.
As much as he tells me he cares about me its hard to believe seeing he went on a bender while I was going into heart surgery and was never there for me after embarrassing himself by showing up in ICU inebriated. Wouldn't caring involve trying to make amends. I feel like I'm not important to him at all.
His excuse for leaving relp is my texts drive him crazy but the fights wouldnt happen if he get off his ass and be there for me. Sorry vent!!!