I would have been so mad at the comments you posted.... and be looking for other things to do with my time. I can't think of any response I would have had from each and every comment you quoted below, but F U... i have had this a couple of times from some people, and we no longer speak. I don;t need their choice to be like that influence me in any way.
"come on and have a real drink"
"my god, you're such a woose"
"you're so quiet when you're sober"
"it's boring when you're sober"
"just have a drink & leave your car"
"life's too short to stop drinking...."
this is the bs my Av tells me. Sure, do it, it' ok! F. U. av... just no, been down that road.
I am glad you made it through. IMO, find other people to hang out with.