I agree with above posts and what kinda shocked me a little if I'm honest is that the mention of pregnancy seemed to just happen to be mentioned alongside the husband and kids. Hun if your pregnant you could be doing that child a huge amount of damage. Regardless of whether your symptoms are normal or not is irrespective and I think you DO need someone to tell you to go to the ER. If not for you for your unborn child. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but sometimes you have to say it as it is!
My friend spoke very honestly with me nearly a week ago and that was the final 'a ha' moment that something had to change.
You need to do something about this now!
Good luck x