YIKES! Serious Jerkwad alert!!
Why do continue being nice to him again?
Oh yeah, I know.....because we are frickin codies. Full fledged C-O-D-I-E!!!
Go no contact and try as hard as you can to keep it that way!!! Don't let him hoover you back in!!
No contact= no new hurts!
Hugs to you...btw- HE DOESN'T DESERVE TO MARRY YOU!!!!!