Hi Rose.
I think we are living with the same man. All this time I thought that I was the only person that lived this way. Reading all the post on this site has helped me feel that I am not alone. I just stoped doing my mans laundry to. He is home all day so why cant he do his own wash. My man thought that it would be a great idea to be self employed and work out of the house. So now he can start drinking any time he wants with no boss to check up on him. I can come home at any time of the day and he is just laying on the couch watching movies. I know what you mean about feeling bad when you want them to leave. I always avoid any conflict with my man because I am afraid that he will just use the conflict as an excuse to get worse. But, how much worse could it get.