I know that some time ago her family was talking about getting custody of her daughter. At the time I was still quite naive to addiction and believed her story. Now, in hindsight I know the reality was probably quite different than what I was told by AF. I'm somewhat concerned about getting dragged into that process as well, but I know after what I saw and heard that she's not in a place to be raising any child.
Oh, some more details. Her abusive husband is voluntarily signing away rights to his young son because the child support is too high (but he makes six figures a year). And AF told me she hasn't had a driver's license in years, and in hindsight I think it's probably related to a drunk driving accident.
I mean, it was really outrageous, and hearing her talk about all this stuff, it was clear it was totally normal to her. I guess I'm okay with talking about it to her family, keeping to the facts, but it still stinks.