Jodi, you have mentioned in other posts that you are 37 and want to have a child. That struck a chord with me. I am 40 and have spent most of my adult life dating men who were addicts or in some other way unavailable, and so not good candidates for fatherhood. I look back now and wonder where the time went, and am facing the possibility that I may never have children. Just food for thought. You still have some time to make your motherhood dreams come true.