Originally Posted by
Jodie77 
I don't need lectures on how he's my "x." We were engaged and together for 5 years, and just broke up last week. It hasn't even been 7 days. We are financially tied in and a lot of my belongings are in his storage as we were having a house built together.
I have a lot I need to sort through both monetarily with him as well as emotionally. A little empathy from people who respond goes a long way. Please think about the fragility of those asking questions before lecturing.
Jodie...
I'm sorry you're going through this. The initial days after a breakup can be pretty brutal, and I know you must be pretty raw at the moment.
With that being said, I strongly suspect he's not being honest about how often he's doing coke. Based on this, I would be extremely skeptical about anything he says because you're dealing with someone in an altered state of consciousness.
Keep us posted.