I don't need lectures on how he's my "x." We were engaged and together for 5 years, and just broke up last week. It hasn't even been 7 days. We are financially tied in and a lot of my belongings are in his storage as we were having a house built together.
I have a lot I need to sort through both monetarily with him as well as emotionally. A little empathy from people who respond goes a long way. Please think about the fragility of those asking questions before lecturing.