Between lack of energy and time, I went with a photo of my husband and I with our youngest son and two dogs. We were driving across the state along with DS19 and his girlfriend and at a pull-off DS8 played in the snow and we got some photos.
Inexpensive frames and prints, $5 blankets, dollar store ornaments and Christmas tins to put them in, plus lots of love. DS8 did fantastic at dollar store shopping and had wonderful gifts on a tiny budget.
Thank you for all the suggestions! Especially the reminder about our PRESENCE.