I can honestly say that when I started this thread the last thing on my mind was helping anyone!! I honestly expected to get a few responses from a a couple of people that I corapond with and that it would be burried soon. It is a bit embarrassing so I kinda wish it would get burried!!
But if it has been a help to anyone other than me (and it has been an incredible boost for me!!) I think that is wonderful. Again, thanks so much for all the responses.