The subject line is a quote that we often hear in this forum as well as Alanon.
I'd like you all to stop a minute and really think about this topic for today. I want you to not just see the actions that prove the negative - but think of the actions that do prove the positive. Not just from the A in your life, but from others. Sometimes we get so bogged down that I think we don't see what is around us.
Add in another measure though - stop and really think about the actions that you give!!! Do you show the positive? Not just to the A in your life, but to those that are around you in your everyday life?
It's easy for us to kick back and scream "Actions Speak Louder than words!!!" and want our A's to prove that love, that promise, etc to us - but we need to look at our actions as well. If actions speak louder than words - what is it that we are speaking to others?
Just something for you all to ponder
