Yup. None of us are unique, and it is a bitter pill for sure. I actually left SR for a while b/c I just knew my relationship was different. HAHA, nope.
However, even before my XAH and I separated, I did step off the crazy train. I stopped letting his addiction drive my life.
Keep going to the T, that is super great. Keep working on who you want to be and what you want out of life!
XXX