Originally Posted by
Saskia 
(((Marcher))), so sorry to hear about your friend. It may sound strange to put it this way but I think a massive heart attack would be a comparative blessing compared to pancreatic cancer.
Thanks Sass and Gilmer and MeSo. I understand what you are saying Sass, We were still coming to terms with the advanced pancreatic diagnosis which was completely out of the blue, then for Chris to die this way was ...
I know what you are saying. My Dad died suddenly but Mr Marcher's mother had a very long drawn out death from a secondary cancer initiated by a melanoma.
Chris's death is so completely unexpected.
Life if you are still reading here at the Marchers I wish you would come back and announce yourself under your new? name. What you said was terribly wrong, but you could come back and tell us how you are going and acknowledge that you have a choice and let us know what you are doing with that choice.