New to the boards
Call me naive, call me blind, or maybe a willing un-participant but I can't believe I didn't know it was worse.
My 23 year old brother called yesterday to tell me he has a coke problem and needs rehab. I took him today. Along the way I learned he stole about 500 in stuff from his boss for drugs and was involved in a credit card scheme.
And then his boss called and it was $10000 worth of stuff and it's heroin. How did I not know it was worse? What do you do to not be an enabler during the rehab visits? Where do I start?