Originally Posted by
sparklingeyes 
Here is an example of my resentments:
I feel resentful at my boyfriend because he ignores me and this affects my self esteem. My part is that I'm expecting him to care, interact with me.
Is this correct?
That's up to you. They are your emotions/experiences and ultimately you'll need to decide.
As was mentioned don't over-think this too much. Just write it down and perhaps you'll see a pattern of behavior which might have caused problems over the years.
It's such behaviors you want to learn to recognize and deal with in a more positive manner.