congratulations to all of you who are on the right track, u are really doing great and its so nice of you all to take time to reply to me without judging and that you know exactly what i am going through at the moment.
Never really thought about it like that but yes they must just be drinking buddies, some i only speak to when we are drinking and 2 of them i am in contact with via text everyday but we only see each other those couple of times a week to drink. I did suggest a cinema night not long ago but they all let me down at the last minute and didnt want to go, said it was boring.
I think i need to re evalute my friends, i do have a friend that doesnt drink every week but my fault and have always put her off doing anything because then i was the one thinking it would be boring.