Originally Posted by
meltdown667 
how does one deal with the knowledge that you have seperated and the other party is having a good time?
I get it but, truly, you don't actually know that from just appearances. Lots of X's play the "I'm happier than you are" game. Just think about your own happiness or doing whatever will bring that about. Just don't depend on yet another mate for that. Concentrate on yourself and what you were born with. God gives us all the tools we need when we're born. Its up to us to find and use them. Take care.