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Old 12-31-2014, 11:23 AM
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desypete
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wish them well and mean it from the heart

there is nothing you can do about it so why waste time and effort and pain trying to ?

it takes time of course but i know people who never get over there partners they hang on for grim death trying to cause hurt of pain or problems etc they have no life of there own as its spent trying to get even or whatever
its ugly and it kills the soul

i once hated the saying that to love someone you will be happy for the time you had with them and no want to cling on to them etc

as i would cling on believing its real love but its not its selfish love

if someone wants to be with me and love me then fine if they want to go away from me then thats fine as well so long as there happy

easy saying it i know but thats the goal or aim to try to head for
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