can i ask WHY you are trying to make yourself NOT angry over your husband bringing some other broad into your home and partying with her????? she's not the only one i would have escorted out of my home that morning. he's not some teenager who snuck a girl in thru his bedroom window....he's your husband and he was off partying with some other woman and then had the unmitigated GAUL to bring her back to your HOME!!!! F the icecubes, gimme the hand grenades!!!
this may be a time where your anger is trying to TELL you something very important, and to get you to wake up. really really wake up. and SEE what you SEE and KNOW what you know.
we teach people how to treat us. if you just "let this go" what does that TELL HIM?