I've never been in your situation, but I've seen similar posts here often from people whose As have gone to rehab -- and they've been at this place where someone else cooks their meals and tells them when to go to therapy and what to do... their lives sound really cushy when you're the one stuck at home with the bills and the laundry and the kids, and nobody helping YOU with anything.
That resentment sounds somewhat rational to me -- if resentment can be rational. But I also think Lexie's point is very important. Much as it might sound cushy, rehab is pretty hellish for most addicts. (((hugs)))