katchie, no matter how good your boys are, they HAVE been affected by living with alcoholism. and yet you still look to the AH to step up to the PARENT role: I asked AH to please have a talk with him about his disrespect. you asked the King of Disrespect to talk to his son about being disrespectful.
He said he would do that, but I knew he wouldn't and now we are home and sure enough, just like I knew, I wasted my breath because he hasn't done a darn thing.
because he doesn't have a damn CLUE in how to address this. he's not a role model, he has nothing to offer in how to be a grown up.