This....100%
He is manipulating his mom and he is manipulating you. It will be easier not to be reeled in when you don't have any contact. HIS family issues are with HIS family. You deserve more. So does his mom, but that is up to her.
Originally Posted by
Hawkeye13 
So do you want to take over cleaning up the puke buckets, paying for everything, and having him call you "crazy" when you get tired of doing it after a few years?
Go back to NC and step away.
This guy is headed for a really major crash and it sounds like his parents are about done.
Guess who he will be asking to rescue him next?
Surely you see this coming?