So can you tell me again, why you are choosing to stay in contact wiith this guy?
Last time we talked you were going to go no contact with him, was wondering what made you change your mind?
and you are correct when you say it very uncomfortable to be in the middle of such big family issues. So why do you expose yourself to that?
I have to ask, what are you thinking? And why do you feel hopeless for an adult man who is not taking care of business and addressing his own needs? and now he calls off a court ordered therapy session. He may just find himself in something we call consequences on that issue.
I'm worried for you, you are not taking care of you, you are hanging around to see what happens? What kind of life is that for you ? Pretty sure 75% of us here have an idea of how this is going to turn out, but............... everyone gets to choose their own path, from the bottom of my heart, choose smart, choose with your head, and not your heart and emotions.