Go (carefully) read about Power and Control... the root of domestic violence. Controlling partners aren't showing love, and what he's doing isn't love. It's control.
There are some stickies at the top of the page. Your post is setting off all sorts of alarm bells. Why does he get any say in what you wear to work? Since when is that ok? Or being on Facebook? Does he conveniently "not like" your family or your friends and is deliberately isolating you from your support sources?
Food for thought. Be safe. He probably "wouldn't like" you being here either...