Well I had to take an honest self examination of my abilities and worth so I wasn't listening with my child-ears to my old tapes. I purposely worked in all the different aspects of my field, advertising design, to be able to confidently stand on my own two feet. So I didn't launch into anything I didn't feel capable of, but I understand the fear we lived with can sneak in and try to steal the joy. It's a discipline to listen to the truth and not the lies.