(((BlueEyes))) I'm so sorry
You got some good advice here. You mentioned he was tipsy: do you think that it is possible that there was a little part of him that was worried about his own drinking and was projecting onto you now that you are sober? Family can have some very strange reactions when folks go sober, especially if they are still drinking and even if, supposedly, they say that is what they wants. (Matilda types as she thinks about heading home on Saturday. Girds loins).